Skip to content

Join Our Server

A Space for Open-Minded Gay Men

About Us

Welcome to Whores R Us, an open-minded community created for gay men who enjoy connection, conversation, and an inclusive space to be themselves. Whether you’re here to chat, share experiences, or just vibe with like-minded people, this server is built to be a safe and respectful environment where you can feel at home.

We prioritize respect, consent, and fun—ensuring that everyone can engage comfortably. While we allow freedom of expression, we uphold clear rules to maintain a welcoming and drama-free space. If you’re looking for a place where you can be yourself, make new connections, and have some good conversations, you’ve found the right server.

Join us, get involved, and become part of a growing community that values open-mindedness, inclusivity, and good times.

I absolutely love it! Sometimes, it can feel overwhelming, but that’s part of what keeps me engaged. It’s active, funny, and a bit sexy. Honestly, it’s mostly about the nudes, but I’ve also made some really good friends along the way.

noahmarkz

I initiated this group, so my perspective may be biased. However, I genuinely believe this is the best adult group I have ever been a part of. It’s social when needed, playful when necessary, and I enjoy working towards creating an amazing group that fosters friendships and exciting relationships.

Gucci

The Rules

Read the rules below and hop into the community. This is an 18+ space designed for connection, fun, and respect.

1. Must Be 18+
This is an adult-only space. By joining, you confirm that you’re at least 18 years old.

2. Respect Each Other
Treat everyone with kindness. No bullying, harassment, hate speech, racism, transphobia, or discrimination of any kind will be tolerated. This includes using the correct pronouns and showing basic respect to trans members. However, while inclusivity is important, this server is a space for open interactions, not activism. We welcome everyone, but we will not restructure the entire community to cater to any single group. Mutual respect goes both ways.

3. Consent Is Key
Do not send unsolicited DMs or pressure others into sharing or doing anything they’re uncomfortable with.

4. Pics Are Welcome, But Not Required
Share as much or as little as you like. This is a no-pressure zone.

5. Scroll Away If You Don’t Like It
If you see something that’s not your thing, just scroll past it. Let’s keep this a peaceful and accepting space.
6. Keep It Legal
No illegal content, non-consensual material, or anything that violates Discord’s guidelines or laws.

7. Privacy Matters
Respect everyone’s privacy. Do not share personal information (yours or others’) without explicit consent.

8. NSFW Content in Designated Areas Only
Keep explicit or NSFW content in the appropriate channels. Let’s keep things organized and safe for everyone.

9. No Spamming or Advertising
Avoid flooding the chat and do not post unsolicited ads, links, or promotions unless a mod approves.

10. Use Trigger Warnings When Necessary
If you’re posting sensitive content, use a trigger warning and mark it as a spoiler.

11. Voice Chat Etiquette
Be respectful in voice chats. Avoid yelling, interrupting, or dominating conversations. Use push-to-talk if needed.

12. Share the Love
Our server is open to like-minded, open-minded gay men. Feel free to share the invite link with friends who fit the vibe.

13. Follow Discord’s Guidelines
Always abide by Discord’s Terms of Service and Community Guidelines.

14. Moderation Decisions Are Final
Mods are here to maintain the peace. Arguing with mods or ignoring their directions will not be tolerated.

15. Participate, But Don’t Overwhelm
Join the fun at your comfort level, but don’t dominate discussions or be overly pushy.

17. Your Comfort Matters, But So Do Boundaries
Your feelings are valid, and we aim to create a space where everyone feels safe and respected. However, you are responsible for how you handle your emotions. If your presence causes others to walk on eggshells, or if you demand an environment that caters entirely to your emotional needs at the expense of others, you may be removed. The therapy channel exists for support—use it if needed.

18. Report Problems Appropriately
If you encounter inappropriate behavior, DM a mod with details or screenshots. Do not escalate publicly in the chat.

19. No Attention-Seeking Tantrums
If you’re not getting the attention you want and decide to throw a fit or leave dramatically, you’ll be dealt with accordingly. Communicate like an adult. Do not act out like a child—children are not allowed here. We have a therapy tab for a reason; use it if needed.

20. Therapy Tab Is a Judgment-Free Zone
The therapy channel is an open space for support. Do not be rude or dismissive. If you’re not the empathetic type, do not engage. Let people express themselves without negativity.

Thank you for reading the rules!

Man, fashion makeup or punk rock hands in thank you, welcome or Japanese greeting on creative purpl
Apply to be a Mod

Have you Read the Rules?

Before you can access the adult sections of the server, you’ll need to obtain the XXX role. This role is granted once a moderator verifies your participation. Just be patient, and a mod will assign it once they see you’ve joined.

If you prefer to stick to the non-adult sections and engage in the more general, friendly parts of the server, be sure to let a moderator know.

Also it is helpful to let them know if you are Top, Verse, Switch, or Bottom

Join the Discord

Alternative Chats:

Snapchat
WhatsApp

New

Telegram

New

Join Facebook Messenger Group

Message Noah and tell him you want in the messenger group. 

How to Support The Server

Keeping a community like this running takes effort, and there are a few ways you can help us keep things active and growing:

  1. Boost the Server on Discord – Boosting helps unlock better features, higher-quality voice channels, and exclusive perks for members. If you love the server, consider using a Discord Boost to support us!

  2. Buy from the Angry Gay Designs Shop – Show your support by purchasing merch from the Angry Gay Designs store. Every purchase helps keep the community alive and funds future server improvements.

  3. Spread the Word – Invite your friends who align with our vibe. The more like-minded people we have, the better the experience for everyone.

  4. Engage and Participate – Simply being active in conversations, sharing content, and helping new members feel welcome goes a long way in keeping the server fun and engaging.

However you choose to support us, we appreciate you being here and contributing to our g

Apply to be a Mod

Mods make sure things are running smoothly and everything is in its place.

Role Assignments & Member Setup
  • New members get the Regular role—this lets them see some private chats but not the XXX channels.
  • XXX role is required to see the NSFW channels. Assign it only to those who request it.
  • Sexual roles (Top, Bottom, Verse, Switch) should be assigned based on preference.
  • “Sides” don’t get a sexual role—XXX role only. We’re not here for that nonsense.
  • Location-based roles (e.g., Florida, Tennessee) are available for members who want access to regional chats.
  • Keep NSFW content in NSFW spaces. If someone drops a sex convo in the wrong channel, delete it and remind them where it belongs.
  • Threads are your friend. Use them to keep focused discussions from clogging up main channels.
  • Make sure channels stay properly named and organized. The setup works—stick to it.
  • Be welcoming—say hi, get people talking, and make sure they feel included.
  • No clique energy. Mods should help keep convos open so no one feels ignored or left out.
  • Keep things active. If someone goes quiet, tag them or bring them back into the chat.
  • Shut down drama fast. No long-winded fights, no dragging things out—either handle it in DMs or remove the problem.
  • Give warnings when needed. If someone keeps pushing limits, mute/kick/ban as needed.
  • No playing favorites. Mods should keep things fair, even with their friends.
  • Delete outdated junk—keep chats relevant and tidy.
  • Make sure people have the right roles and are in the right spaces.
  • Review channels occasionally to make sure everything is running smoothly.
  • Being a mod doesn’t make you a dictator. Enforce the rules, but don’t be obnoxious about it.
  • Enjoy the chaos, but don’t let it get out of hand.

Suggestion Box

Leave a Review